Dr. Julie Gurner
Founder, Gurner Consulting. On 1 show, 3 appearances. The Shows tab opens the full record on each.
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Holding a Doctor of Psychology degree, Dr. Julie Gurner advises tech founders, Fortune 500 CEOs, and elite performers on mindset, decision-making, and peak performance. She is also the author of Ultra Successful, a Substack newsletter addressing leadership, discipline, and performance psychology.
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8said about them ↓ Everything Dr. Julie Gurner said on any show that made the record, most notable first. Each card names its show and opens the statement there.
Gurner: Leaders Should Not Bring Their Full Selves to Work
“And sometimes stepping into that role means that you leave a lot of other things on the side. It means that you don't bring your full self to work. Nobody cares. Nobody wants that. And like you bring your best work self to work and you lead from the front and …”
Gurner: High performers run on obsession, not prolonged forced discipline
“When we are at our best, we're not slogging through. And great People are obsessed and they're not slogging through either. They are driven. They are motivated. They are deeply, deeply engaged. And so I find that oftentimes when we over rely on discipline, tho…”
Dr. Julie Gurner rejects 'building in public' in favor of private execution
“I know everyone's a big fan of, like, building in public, and I'm not, I'm absolutely opposite of that, and I'm much more of the Sun Tzu, like, let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you fall, fall like a thunderbolt, right?”
Gurner: Employees rarely match executive obsession; 80% performance is sufficient
“The truth of it is they're not going to be. Most of the time. But can they hit a bar that is 80% of what your expectation might be? And is that going to be enough? And I think for some people, they're just still going to carry that frustration, and for other p…”
Gurner: Having no expectations leads to lifelong unhappiness, not peace
“A lot of people say, you know, if you want to be happy, don't have expectations, and I think that's a really good way to be unhappy for the rest of your life, because people, if you don't have expectations, there, you will just put up with everything, right? I…”
Dr. Julie Gurner: Internal drive and hunger cannot be taught
“I think that internal drive is something you can't teach. And I'm very, you know, perhaps that goes against current wisdom. I do think that as long as someone has that internal hunger and that internal drive, you know, there was a, there's an old saying that y…”
Gurner: Channeled rage and resentment can drive high performance
“I'm a big fan of using negative drivers as well as positive drivers. I think if you have deep rage, deep anger, deep resentment it's how you channel that that will make it beneficial or detrimental.”
Gurner: Blaming childhood events for adult actions cedes personal agency
“So when people are telling me that, like, you know, I'm doing this because of my childhood, I'm doing this because of this, I think, you know, you're, you know, you're giving up some amount of power. You're giving up a lot of power to something outside of your…”
Gurner: High achievers often use work success to escape personal shortcomings
“A lot of times people will use being good at work as an escape if they're bad at home. So like, for example, you'll see that sometimes people who reach pretty great heights aren't always the best dads. They're not always the best husbands. Sometimes they are. …”
Gurner: Outliers do not burn boats because they trust their adaptability
“I don't think that they see themselves burning boats, because I think that they see that no matter what happens, they'll figure it out. I don't think that they're gonna say, like, oh, I'm gonna lose it all if this happens. I think they'll say, well, I'll figur…”
Gurner: Being told 'you have changed' should be taken as a compliment
“So someone's saying, oh, you've changed, yes, consider that a compliment, right? Like, you want to change, you want to be different, you want to grow, and I always feel like when people say things like, don't forget where you come from, sometimes it's a way of…”
Gurner: Kris Jenner built multiple billion-dollar companies from flight attendant start
“She's built multiple billion dollar companies, and people tend to overlook that, and they'll say, oh, you know, she did it because of a, you know, this on her kids, or, you know, they'll find a way to kind of discredit things, and I always think it's fascinati…”
Gurner: Psychological Research Shows Sharing Goals Reduces Motivation
“Research in psychology shows that when you share your goals and people give you praise, it actually pulls from motivation to achieve them.”
Gurner: Separating Identity From Work Prevents Skewed Decision-Making
“I think that it's very useful to see business or things that you care deeply about are the things that you do, not who you are. And I think it actually gives you an increased level of competence when you're able to do that, because you're able to, when you're …”
Gurner: A leader dismissing a topic signals it must be addressed
“If you have someone who comes to you and say, you know, I'm going to talk about everything but product. We could talk about everything but product. That's to me as a signal, like, we need to talk about product, right? Like, that's the flag.”
An executive acting defensive or brusque is a counterintuitive signal of trust
“You have to have a great relationship for someone to feel comfortable being able to be kind of not their best self with you, Right. To be able to give you some hard responses, to be able to be a little brusque with you. And I can take that. And to me, that's a…”
Gurner: Framing feedback as "us versus the problem" reduces defensiveness
“You're forming a collaboration against the problem. So rather than me, and then you are the problem, it is, I'm pulling you to my side of the table, and it's us together versus this problem that we're going to talk about, and it is it's incredibly effective be…”
Gurner: Post-interaction energy drain is the best relationship red flag
“I think your energy is probably the best flag, and it isn't always about something specific. So if you leave those interactions and You know, you find yourself not feeling great. To me, that's the, always the first flag. And then do you notice there's a patter…”
Gurner: The primary driver of a business is also its greatest limiter
“If you are the greatest driver of where you end up, you're the greatest kind of engine to your business in your world and in your relationships then you also are also, you are also the greatest limiter, right?”
Gurner: Exceptional performers import ideas from outside their own domains
“People who are great will find ways of pulling in exceptional things from outside of their fields, outside of their way of thinking, outside of tradition, outside of, you know, what is common, and some ways we have to do that for ourselves, right, but we also …”
Gurner: A chip on your shoulder is an inexhaustible motivational source
“That chip on your shoulder Can be a real motivational pull for a lot of people, because there's nothing that they will ever reach that will fully prove it wrong, right? I mean, so that becomes that endless source”
Gurner: Unchallenged 'imaginary rules' and peer echo chambers artificially limit personal ambition
“Unless you find ways to expand beyond yourself, these imaginary rules that you carry around often keep you very small, because you will limit what you feel you can do. You will limit how much you feel you can earn. You will limit what you feel you're capable o…”
Dr. Julie Gurner: The circle you seek validation from must be tiny
“I think that we should seek it from the right people in our lives, but we certainly don't want to be seeking it outside of that, and I guess I'm of the belief that that circle of seeking validation should be incredibly small. I mean, a few people you know, you…”
Gurner: Tying identity solely to business leaves founders vulnerable to collapse
“If you have only one leg of a stool, it's easy to kick out, right? So, like, if you say, hey, everything that I am is my business, and you put your identity in that, it's when your business does poorly or it collapses, it just, it shakes you. If you have multi…”
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