Gurner: High performers run on obsession, not prolonged forced discipline
Dr. Julie Gurner · Dr. Julie Gurner (Part 1): Caring Deeply, Challenging Directly · Jun 27, 2023 · at 4:45
Executive performance coach Dr. Julie Gurner discusses the mechanics of sustainable motivation versus forced discipline in elite performers with host Shane Parrish.
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“When we are at our best, we're not slogging through. And great People are obsessed and they're not slogging through either. They are driven. They are motivated. They are deeply, deeply engaged. And so I find that oftentimes when we over rely on discipline, those are the times we start to see like Olympic athletes retiring, right? Like they don't want to, if it starts to feel like a slog and you're pushing yourself every day, I mean, we all have periods of that, but too long. And that really becomes laborious. And to me, it's often a flag that perhaps You shouldn't be in that area at all.”
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