discipline
3 statements across 3 episodes · 0 bullish · 0 bearish · 3 people on the record · first statement Oct 30, 2018 by Barbara Coloroso · across every show →
Everything said about discipline, oldest first
Oct 30, 2018
Coloroso: Discipline is collaborative while punishment breeds fear and resentment
“Discipline is not something we do to a child. It's something we do with a child. Punishment's adult-oriented. It is imposed from without. It arouses resentment and teaches kids to respond out of fear or fight back or flee.”
Jun 27, 2023
Gurner: High performers run on obsession, not prolonged forced discipline
“When we are at our best, we're not slogging through. And great People are obsessed and they're not slogging through either. They are driven. They are motivated. They are deeply, deeply engaged. And so I find that oftentimes when we over rely on discipline, tho…”
Oct 31, 2023
Valiante: Personality and IQ are largely fixed, while discipline is malleable
“So we look at fixed traits like personality, by and large, you're not changing personality. Things like IQ. I mean, they shift over time. They tend to gradually
Move in a direction consistent with, you know, with family sort of IQ, a fixed trait like IQ. Thin…”