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Santos: Depriving Kids of Failure Drives Rising College Student Anxiety
“I mean, I think that's right, and I think this is one of the reasons we're seeing so much more anxiety in our college students today, right, is that they've never had a chance to mess up. They've never had a chance to do it on their own, and so when they final…”
Santos: Time Famine Harms Well-Being More Than Lack of Money
“A lot of the unhappiness hit that comes with poverty isn't necessarily a not having money hit, it's a not having time hit. You know, so she argues that time famine comes with, you know, being low income, and it's actually the time famine that's a real hit on w…”
Santos: Altruistic Actions Generate More Happiness Than Self-Care Luxuries
“Happiness is about achieving these accolades. It's not. We often think happiness is about self-care and treating ourselves and giving ourselves these luxuries. It's not. In fact, if anything, it's about doing nice things for others. That gives you more of a ki…”
Santos: Children Mirror Their Parents' Anxiety Through Emotional Contagion
“I think one thing that's useful for parents to remember is about the science of emotional contagion, that like, you know, we naturally catch other people's emotions. If you're embodying calm, and this is going to be fine, and everything's okay, then kids are g…”
Santos: External Milestones Provide Only a Temporary Happiness Boost
“You know, there's studies that look at people who get those wonderful things, and yeah, you get a little happiness boost for a little while, but it doesn't seem to last. Lasting happiness comes from something else.”
Santos: People Instinctively Pick Reference Points That Make Them Feel Inadequate
“The comparison point you pick is always somebody that's going to make you feel like crap. And that makes sense. You know, we want to have something to shoot for, but it means we never feel good with what we have. We're always finding reference points that make…”
Santos: Human Minds Evolved for Survival and Reproduction, Not Happiness
“We are products of natural selection, which is a blind process that, you know, if you kind of intentionalize it, it's kind of going for anything that will get you to survive and reproduce into the next generation. So natural selection is like double down on al…”
Santos: Emotion Regulation Requires Proactively Avoiding Triggering Situations
“Emotion regulation and finding ways to control your emotions are sometimes about you experience that emotion. You've gotta control it and regulate it in the moment, but you can also be smart enough about, like, trying not to get yourself into that situation in…”
Santos: Burnout Stems From Work Becoming Your Identity, Not Apathy
“Oftentimes it's not because your work, you didn't care about your work, or your work is boring, or it sucked. Oftentimes it's because you got so involved in your work is really your identity right now.”
Santos: Seeking Solitude During Burnout Cuts Off Restorative Social Connection
“Solitude, I think when you're experiencing this, the depersonalization, which is like rich cynicism, you know, I get it. It's like, I don't want to deal with people anymore. But ultimately that's allowing us, that's forcing us to lose out on this one mechanism…”
Santos: People Need Leisure That Is Challenging and Flow-Inducing
“So it's like, we don't want to be at work, but we forget in some ways the, like, good things that work does for our psychology, which is that sometimes Kind of puts us in challenge mode, puts us into flow, and I think the answer is that we kind of all need, we…”
Santos: Reframing Everyday Purchases as Time-Saving Investments Boosts Happiness
“If you make those purchases, you're happier, but if you reframe the purchases you're already making as time-saving, it can make you happier.”
Santos: People Systematically Overestimate the Impact of Future Achievements
“You know, you get a new house, and like, yeah, that feels good, but it doesn't feel as good as you're going to think, and it doesn't feel good for as long as you're going to think. These are errors in what we call affective forecasting. You're forecasting that…”
Santos: Negative Visualization Halts Hedonic Adaptation and Resets Expectations
“Just by feeling what it might feel like To have something negative happen, it resets your reference point. It also kind of, like, stops your hedonic adaptation for a second, where you're like, oh my gosh, like, there are good things about having my spouse, and…”