Perel: Argument choreography matters far more than the actual content
Esther Perel · #71 Esther Perel: Cultivating Desire · Dec 10, 2019 · at 37:28
Psychotherapist Esther Perel explains common conflict dynamics in relationships to Shane Parrish, outlining how couples fall into rigid behavioral patterns.
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“What's really important in terms of couples and relationships in general, I will say, is that it's probably one of the golden rules, is to understand that the choreography, the form, is way more important than the content. If you have people who are going at each other, they go at each other about everything. It's not the specific topics that make them go at each other.”
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