Sam Lessin predicts most will choose AI companions over real relationships
Sam Lessin · Founders Beware: Illiquid Valuations vs. Real‑World Taxes · More or Less Podcast · Jan 9, 2026 · at 32:43
Sam Lessin argues against Dave Morin's optimistic view on physical human embodiment, comparing digital AI companionship to cheap dopamine like sugar.
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“Imagine in the near future, you can have an AI driven girlfriend, right? Boyfriend, companion, whatever. That is exactly what you want, but digital. Always available, says that it does all the things you want, like is like a perfect companion in every possible way, but is digital. And then contrast that with a real relationship, which is in the real world, that is expensive and mucky and not perfect in the whole nine yards. What do 99.9% of people choose? They choose the easy thing. It's sugar, right?”
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