Johnson: A strong parental alliance is the most valuable gift to children
Dr. Sue Johnson · #62 Dr. Sue Johnson: Cracking the Code of Love · Jul 23, 2019 · at 1:52:20
Dr. Sue Johnson discusses why prioritizing the spousal bond over child-centric parenting provides children with a blueprint for their own future relationships.
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“The best thing you can give your children is parents who know how to support each other and stand together and help each other. Not only that, but you give your children even something more valuable by doing that. You give your children a vision of what a good relationship looks like. Yeah, you're giving them a map. Guide them for the rest of their lives.”
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