Santos: Over-Intervention by Parents Causes Children to Give Up Faster
Laurie Santos · Best of 2022: Conversations of the Year · Dec 27, 2022 · at 11:30
Lori Santos cites research by Yale colleague Julia Leonard regarding the negative impacts of parental over-assistance on children's problem-solving persistence.
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“What she finds is that when you give kids a very different puzzle later on, kids who've had that taking over condition, where the parents give the answer, give up much more quickly. And if you find ways to survey them about what they believe, like, they probably don't have the ability to do that stuff.”
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