Paul Assaiante

12 statements across 1 episodes · 3 bullish · 3 bearish · 1 people on the record · first statement Dec 12, 2023 by Paul Assaiante · said 6 times in 2 episodes since 2025 · across every show →

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Dec 12, 2023 positive
Insight
Assaiante: Athletes must practice their weaknesses but compete strictly to their strengths
“I believe that you practice your weaknesses, but you compete to your strengths. And the more you can shore up your weaknesses when your opponent tries to expose those, then you're going to be more able to get past it. You always want to go out there in competi…”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 17:30 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Insight
Assaiante: True success is knowing when you have enough without stopping effort
“But I think success is to get to a place where you can look in the mirror. Almost nobody gets here, by the way. You can look in a mirror and say, I have enough. To me, that's really successful. Now, that doesn't mean you take your foot off the gas. You continu…”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 9:35 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Insight
Assaiante: Leaders must explain the 'why' behind decisions, not seek agreement
“As future leaders in this world, They deserve to know what goes into every decision. I have no expectation that they're going to like it, agree with it. That's not important to me, but they need to know why.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 1:05:49 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023 negative
Opinion
Assaiante: Modern youth are less self-critical because they lack personal ownership
“Yeah, no, much less now. There's lack of ownership. So if I don't own an outcome, why would I take the time to beat myself up about it?”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 52:51 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Insight
Assaiante: Directly confronting perceived problems reveals they are harmless
“And so the concept is go at the problem. Go at what you perceive to be the problem. And what you'll invariably find is it's a toothless old lady.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 4:50 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023 positive
Insight
Assaiante: Increasing time between thought and action reduces knee-jerk reactions
“We've just doubled the amount of time between thought and action. That's a good thing, alright, because now we're less likely to act on a thought That may have been a bad thought or a knee-jerk reaction. The goal is to increase the gap of time between those tw…”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 32:03 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Disclosure
Assaiante openly tells his athletes that he takes medication for depression
“I am very open with, I share my humanity all the time. You know, I'm medicated on for depression. They know that. I let them know that.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 55:05 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023 positive
Insight
Assaiante: Elite performers find joy in daily practice, while others see drudgery
“The great ones have this great capacity for imagination where they can come in and it's fun. It's exciting. They see the value. They see the purpose. For the others, it's drudgery.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 21:28 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023 negative
Insight
Assaiante: Athletes should avoid giving 100 percent effort in daily conditioning
“And I personally believe in terms of conditioning, I don't want people to put in a hundred percent on any given day. I want them to save a little for tomorrow.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 23:27 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Insight
Assaiante: Moving from good to great requires accepting a temporary backward step
“One of the things I find as a coach is in an effort to move forward, You sometimes need to take a half a step backwards, and people will absolutely fight that to the death. I don't want that. I want to become, I want to go from good to great, but I'm not willi…”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 6:41 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023 negative
Insight
Assaiante: Emotion is the enemy of performance because it blinds strategic adjustments
“And this is where my feelings about emotion are your enemy. Because emotion takes away your ability to recognize what adjustments and shifts need to be made.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 8:47 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
Dec 12, 2023
Insight
Assaiante: Educators must share all perspectives so students decide for themselves
“If you have a tree that's bent to the left and you want the tree to grow straight, you don't tie the tree straight. You bend it to the right and then the tree finds the middle. I think we have to share all perspectives and let the kids make up their own minds.”
Paul Assaiante Dec 12, 2023 ▶ 1:04:03 Paul Assaiante: Learning to Face Your Fears
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