John Gottman, every mention
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every year anyone Sheila Heen 7Emily Nagoski 5Hannah Fry 4Dr. Laura Markham 3Randall Stutman 2Suzanne Iasenza 1Dr. Becky Kennedy 1Blake Eastman 1
Verbatim, from the transcripts: the passages where John Gottman comes up
Dr. Becky Kennedy: The One Thing You Can Say That Changes Everything
- ▶ 1:14:12 Dr. Becky Kennedy Well, we all do this, but they're also saying almost, like, more zoomed out, like, hey, now that that thing already happened, like, I'm coming to you, and this is, I think the Gottman's call, this is like a bid for connection.
Blake Eastman: Learn to Read Anyone
- ▶ 20:10 Blake Eastman This is like all the work that Gottman did, relationship labs, and all predicting like signs of contempt and all these things.
TKP Insights: Leadership
- ▶ 27:32 Randall Stutman So, so I'll leave it to people like John Gottman and other people to talk about marriages, because the same thing would apply to marriages, but let's just talk about leader relationships, how quickly they can get out of balance.
#96 Randall Stutman: The Essence of Leadership
- ▶ 34:11 Randall Stutman So, so I'll leave it to people like John Gottman and other people to talk about marriages because the same thing would apply to marriages, but let's just talk about leader relationships, how quickly they can get out of balance.
#87 Hannah Fry: The Role of Algorithms
- ▶ 45:15 Hannah Fry So this is, this is some work that was done by, um, the psychologist John Gottman. 4 times in the scene
#75 Suzanne Iasenza: Rewriting Relationship Narratives
- ▶ 1:06:51 Suzanne Iasenza John Gottman, a great couple therapist, talks about fighting fair, you know.
#66 Dr. Emily Nagoski: Pleasure is the Measure
- ▶ 39:42 Emily Nagoski John Gottman, uh, uses the phrase enduring vulnerabilities.
- ▶ 56:32 Emily Nagoski So there's a, when, if you want to know the details about this, there's an amazing, very pretty technical book called The Science of Trust by John Gottman. 2 times in the scene
- ▶ 1:08:57 Emily Nagoski One is, and this is the classic John Gottman gentle startup.
- ▶ 1:16:14 Emily Nagoski Be like, be the managers of the emotions in relationships, and what John Gottman's research shows is that women are indeed in heterosexual relationships, the managers of the emotions in the relationship, responsible for, like,…
#57 Sheila Heen: Decoding Difficult Conversations
- ▶ 1:14:55 Sheila Heen Um, well, have you read any John Gottman yet? 7 times in the scene
#52 Dr. Laura Markham: Peaceful Parenting with
- ▶ 38:29 Dr. Laura Markham Much of it was covered, much of the early research was covered by John Gottman in his book, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. 3 times in the scene