Carolyn Coughlin

8 statements across 2 episodes · 0 bullish · 0 bearish · 1 people on the record · first statement Jan 24, 2023 by Carolyn Coughlin · across every show →

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Jan 24, 2023
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Coughlin: Direct interventions in complex systems cause resistance rather than lasting change
“So, the idea there is that in a complex system, you have to understand the patterns, and then if you want to make a change you don't intervene directly, because the system will push back. Instead, you make little nudges, shape the path, like, amp, create and a…”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 34:50 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023
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Coughlin: Effective team check-ins require examining outliers and unsaid remarks
“And particularly when you do a check in it's important not only to see the commonalities, the themes, but also pay attention to the outliers and also what wasn't said.”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 31:37 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023
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Coughlin: Deep listening requires assuming your interpretation of others is wrong
“Always noticing what I think it means is probably wrong, and how could it be wrong? And therefore, I have to acquire.”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 15:39 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023 neutral
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Coughlin: Intentional peer groups set conditions for growth, not guaranteed outcomes
“Trying to orchestrate things just right so that, you know, you're hanging out with exactly the right people who will get you the exact right result is probably the wrong mindset. A more helpful mindset is that people, communities, Do create the conditions for …”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 39:19 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023
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Coughlin: Limiting language manifests through habitual identity statements and monolithic narratives
“And so language that is limiting for people is often as simple as what I, you know, described to you, the have to's and the need to's. It often shows up as like, I am just this way. Or I am the sort of person who has to respond when somebody emails me right aw…”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 16:51 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023 neutral
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Coughlin: Working from home facilitates echo chambers by filtering outside views
“When we work from home, it's much easier to create our own echo chambers, either on purpose or inadvertently, And because we have so much more control over what we let in and what we don't let in.”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 25:39 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Jan 24, 2023
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Coughlin: Polarities require managing interconnected needs over time, not either-or choices
“So, a polarity, it's two things that are like an energy system in that they are inherently interconnected, and to get the best outcomes over time, you need both.”
Carolyn Coughlin Jan 24, 2023 ▶ 1:04:34 Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener
Dec 26, 2023
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Coughlin: Adult development relies on separating subject from object
“In the subject object theory, you're, what you're listening for, the stage of development is defined by what is subject and what is object. And when I say subject, what I mean is like, what you're fused with. It's like the water you're swimming in. The lens th…”
Carolyn Coughlin Dec 26, 2023 ▶ 17:06 Best of 2023: Conversations of the Year
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