Coughlin: Working from home facilitates echo chambers by filtering outside views
Carolyn Coughlin · Carolyn Coughlin: Become A Better Listener · Jan 24, 2023 · at 25:39
Executive coach Carolyn Coughlin discusses how working from home reduces exposure to diverse perspectives.
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“When we work from home, it's much easier to create our own echo chambers, either on purpose or inadvertently, And because we have so much more control over what we let in and what we don't let in.”
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