Joel Simkhai

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Joel Simkhai is the creator of Grindr, a geolocation-based dating app he founded in 2009 and led until selling to Kunlun Tech in 2018. In 2022, he co-founded the curated queer dating app Motto, which operated until late 2024.

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The record, in short

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Their most notable supported claim

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Simkhai: Egyptian authorities actively use Grindr to track and arrest gay men
“It's not alleged. It happens.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 53:26 Grindr: Joel Simkhai

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Everything Joel Simkhai said on How I Built This that made the record, most notable first. Filter by type, assessment or year in the ledger →

Opinion
Simkhai: Grindr avoided VC to not answer to straight corporate investors
“And I felt that if I would take venture backing I would essentially become a monkey to them, and that I would need to essentially work for them. And a lot of them were, you know, straight men who I felt like didn't understand my business, and you know, I didn'…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 49:13 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Users will pay for dating apps because matchmaking was always paid
“I remember people always telling me, you know, hey, Joel nobody pays for apps. Apps are all free. And no one's gonna ever pay for an app, and I said, I'm actually not an app. I'm a, essentially, a dating business, and people have been paying for dating for cen…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 33:36 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Supported
Simkhai: Egyptian authorities actively use Grindr to track and arrest gay men
“It's not alleged. It happens.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 53:26 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Simkhai: Grindr's customer acquisition cost was essentially zero
“Our marketing spend was essentially zero, so our cost to acquire new users was essentially zero. I mean, that's what allowed us to grow. You know, if I had to spend money acquiring users, we would not have been able to achieve what we achieved.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 42:36 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Local network density is the core moat for location-based apps
“And, you know, for a location-based service, when you're meeting people, it's really, you know, all about, you want people nearby. And if someone's not nearby, that's not a great experience. And so we had the, you know, first mover's advantage. We had the netw…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 44:05 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Startup valuations and headcount are vanity metrics
“And I think one of the ways that founders get caught up in validation is with Valuations. Valuations, headcount. And to me, those were vanity metrics. Those were not metrics that were important. The only metric that was really important to me was my daily acti…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 50:11 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Blendr failed because product architecture misunderstood women's needs
“Our failure was in the architecture of what we did. And so, you know, if there was a woman, she would get hundreds and hundreds of messages. We also allowed people to exchange photos, and so women would get unsolicited nudes. That, you know, that was a problem…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 55:42 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Every queer person wonders who in a room is like them
“I think every queer person walks into a room and, you know, wonders who else is just like them in the room.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 11:26 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
What-if
Simkhai: Grindr would have sold to Manhunt for $200,000 at launch
“Had you offered me the 200,000 dollars that you had paid for this study of yours, I would have taken your offer.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 22:09 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Focusing on appearance in dating apps mimics real-life interaction
“The way I had always thought of it was, you know, you walk into a bar, and what is it that you first see is you first see that person. You walk into any situation, and so that is actually mimics real life in some ways.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 39:38 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
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Simkhai: London Olympic athletes did not cause the 2012 Grindr outage
“And it was ridiculous, right? I mean, how many Olympians are there? A few thousand. How many of them are gay? Maybe a dozen, a few dozen or a few hundred. For them to be able to crash our servers when we had, you know, hundreds of thousands of users and maybe,…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 47:37 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Insight
Simkhai: Grindr traffic and downloads increased after outages and negative press
“And one of the things I realized also is that, you know, our outages actually, we had a lot of outages. And we would actually see that anytime we would have an outage, our traffic would go up afterwards. And anytime we would have a negative news article about …”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 48:01 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
What-if
Simkhai: Grindr Should Have Actively Moderated Toxic User Behavior
“I think we should have had been more, a lot more involved and guiding of our users and letting them know that certain behaviors was just unacceptable.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 58:05 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Not publicly verifiable
Grindr founder: App was hacked shortly after Kunlun acquisition
“We got hacked soon after the deal closed.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 1:01:01 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Disclosure
Simkhai decided to build Grindr instantly upon iPhone 3G GPS announcement
“It wasn't almost immediately. It was immediately. You know, the second he said this, I said, I need to build an app that lets me meet guys on it.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 12:33 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Disclosure
Joel Simkhai recruited Grindr's developer from jailbroken Cydia mapping projects
“The ones I remembered were some mapping apps. This was, again, before any Apple Maps or Google Maps. And so I reached out to each of those developers, and I said, hey I'd like to develop an app myself, and I was wondering, you know, would like to hire you to b…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 13:56 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
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Simkhai: Grindr's grid interface was inspired by the iPhone photo album
“And I remember, you know, one day looking at my photo album on my phone, And I said, hey, wouldn't it be great if these were the guys around me? And so that was really the inspiration for the user interface of Grindr, and it still remains today, is it's a grid…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 16:29 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Disclosure
Grindr launched spending only a few thousand dollars initially
“I think we, it's only spent a few thousand dollars.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 19:49 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Supported
Grindr launched with zero-friction onboarding requiring no email, account, or photo
“So we didn't even require an email address no phone number, nothing. It was just we had used the device ID. You could log on, and you didn't have to even create an account, which later became a problem, but initially, you could just log on, and photos were not…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 24:08 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
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Grindr averaged around 1,000 downloads per day during early promotion
“And so we got probably about a thousand downloads a day.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 26:09 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Disclosure
Simkhai: Grindr was funded with a $100,000 parental loan and rev share
“Yeah, I got a loan, about a 100,000 dollars from my parents You know, fortunately, I wasn't paying Scott. He was working for Equity. Morton was getting, eventually what would, the deal I had with Morton was a rev share on the ads that would come in.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 26:32 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
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Grindr made several hundred thousand dollars in ad revenue its first year
“Maybe a few thousand dollars the first month, and imagine the first year we probably made a few 100,000 dollars in in ads.”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 31:02 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Supported
Simkhai: Grindr's early App Store reviews averaged one star
“Yeah, our app store ratings were, you know, one star. We had Horrible reviews, and .”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 34:25 Grindr: Joel Simkhai
Assertion Supported
Simkhai: Grindr outsourced early app and backend engineering to Costa Rica
“And so I had another friend, a childhood friend, Yvette Pasqua, who worked at a consulting firm down in Costa Rica. And so eventually I turned to her, I don't know exactly what, I can't remember exactly what year that was, but it was fairly early on, and throu…”
Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 ▶ 35:05 Grindr: Joel Simkhai

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Grindr: Joel Simkhai Jul 17, 2023 39m
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