Apr 16, 2021 · 32m · we-live-to-build
The Audit That Saved Me Hundreds of Thousands When I Sold
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In this episode of the We Live to Build podcast, founder Jay Myers outlines actionable strategies for scaling and selling a business, including operational due diligence, tax optimization via personal goodwill, and managing the psychological void that follows an exit.
How this conversation actually went
Every chapter scored 0–10 on four independent dynamics. Hover any point for the reasoning behind the score. Sean holds 26.7% of the talking time here. How this is scored →
speaking balance: gold is Sean, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Jay dismisses the common claim by founders that unsolicited acquisition inquiries are effortlessly ignored, calling it unrealistic and admitting everyone feels flattered.
Hardest push from Sean ▶ 18:25 Sean challenges long-term post-sale mental preparationSean counters the idea that one can fully prepare for life after an exit, arguing that rapid founder evolution renders multi-year post-sale projections mostly futile.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 27:02 Jay breaks down the personal goodwill audit tax strategyJay educates the host and listeners on the mechanics of personal goodwill appraisals, explaining how quantifying individual founder contribution saved hundreds of thousands in taxes.
Sean holds their own ▶ 15:13 Sean contextualizes post-exit identity loss using CFP insightsSean demonstrates his own subject knowledge by citing previous expert interviews regarding founder liquidity events and the psychological vacuum following the loss of a venture.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Sean as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Sean pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Jay Myers on Founding and Scaling Interactive Solutions | 2 | 3 | 2 | 0 | Sean asks Jay when he first considered selling his business. Jay gently pushes back on the idea that founders ignore acquisition inquiries without being flattered, walking through his 20-year journey. | |
| Preparing Operational Value and Financial Cleanliness for Acquisition | 3 | 5 | 0 | 0 | Sean inquires about operational improvements to drive valuation. Jay details critical M&A factors like audited financials, customer diversification, and recurring revenue. | |
| Cultivating Company Reputation and Retaining Talent Through Empathy | 2 | 3 | 0 | 0 | Sean asks how to evaluate reputation and curb employee turnover. Jay explains his philosophy of compassionate management, sharing how he supported employees facing severe health crises. | |
| Leveraging Growth Rankings and Managing Application Timelines | 2 | 4 | 0 | 0 | Sean asks practical questions about getting featured on Inc. and Forbes fastest-growing lists. Jay breaks down the five-year growth application rules and timeline mechanics. | |
| The Psychological Toll and Identity Loss Following an Exit | 5 | 3 | 0 | 0 | Jay reflects on the emotional unpreparedness founders face after selling. Sean connects this to insights from a previous wealth management episode regarding post-exit loss of purpose. | |
| Navigating the Grieving Process and Planning Life After the Sale | 4 | 3 | 0 | 2 | Jay describes mentoring and authoring books as preparation for life after exit. Sean suggests that planning too far ahead is somewhat futile due to constant entrepreneurial evolution. | |
| Strategic Buyer Outreach and Son's Due Diligence at Infocomm | 2 | 5 | 0 | 0 | Jay recounts sending his son to Infocomm to vet the acquirer and using his son's due diligence role as a cover story to keep the sale confidential from staff. | |
| Negotiating Purchase Price and Securing Life-Changing Capital | 3 | 6 | 0 | 0 | Sean asks about tax strategies during acquisition. Jay delivers an informative breakdown of personal goodwill audits and how separating personal goodwill saved hundreds of thousands in taxes. | |
| Post-Exit Philanthropy, Startup Mentorship, and Angel Investing | 2 | 4 | 0 | 0 | Sean asks about future plans and unaddressed advice. Jay shares his work with SCORE and highlights that companies sell when the business is ready, not when the founder is ready. |