Establishing explicit personal rules protects people from social pressure
Dan Ariely · #33 Dan Ariely: The Truth About Lies · May 25, 2018 · at 37:49
Behavioral economist Dan Ariely discusses how having predetermined personal rules helps manage awkward social boundaries and declined invitations.
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“The moment you have a rule, you basically are elevating something for yourself and for other people. You're creating a standard from it and it helps you protect yourself.”
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