Iasenza: Sexual initiation patterns are more socially constructed than biologically determined
Suzanne Iasenza · #75 Suzanne Iasenza: Rewriting Relationship Narratives · Feb 4, 2020 · at 37:43
Psychotherapist and sex therapist Suzanne Iasenza discusses whether gender differences in sexual initiation stem from biology or cultural conditioning.
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“Yeah, I think it really, probably most sex therapists would say it's more socially constructed than biologically determined, even though, yes, Cisgendered men have more testosterone in their systems than cisgendered women, let's say.”
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