Logan Ury: Outsourcing Emotional Needs to Social Networks Creates Happier Marriages
Logan Ury · Logan Ury: The Dating Myths You Need to Stop Believing · Mar 18, 2025 · at 1:53:43
Logan Ury, behavioral scientist and Hinge relationship director, discusses relationship psychology research from Northwestern University with Shane Parrish.
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“There's this concept called other significant others, which is this idea that It came from research from Eli Finkel and Elaine Chung at Northwestern, and you basically say to a couple, you know, who are the different people that you go to in your lives for different things, whether it's like talking about TV shows, talking about baseball, career advice, and couples that have longer lists of the individual people they go to tend to have these happier, more successful relationships, because instead of putting all the pressure on getting their needs met from one person, they actually have this network that they lean on”
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