The Standard of Parenting Is Committing to Acknowledging Mistakes
Greg Walton · #64 Greg Walton: The Big Impact of Small Interventions · Aug 20, 2019 · at 40:04
Greg Walton explains how modeling mistake-making and humility fosters resilience and a growth mindset in children.
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“The standard of parenting is not going to be perfection. The standard of parenting is going to be a commitment to a process that when you make mistakes, you know, you tell your child you made a mistake. And you commit to a process of trying to be the best kind of parent you can be.”
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