Logan Ury
20 statements across 2 episodes · 4 bullish · 5 bearish · 1 people on the record · first statement Mar 18, 2025 by Logan Ury · across every show →
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Mar 18, 2025 positive
Ury: Breakups should never be the first time issues are raised
“There's this rule kind of in corporate America that if you're going to lay somebody off or give them a bad performance review, it shouldn't be the first time that they've gotten that feedback. So I think it's much more fair to let somebody know throughout the …”
Mar 18, 2025
Mar 18, 2025 negative
Ury: Early Romantic Chemistry Is Often Anxiety Triggered by Ambiguity
“The second myth is that if you feel the spark, it's definitely a good thing, and actually, sometimes certain people give us the spark because we actually don't know how they feel about us, so sort of that hot, cold feeling makes us wonder, does he like me? Doe…”
Mar 18, 2025 negative
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Mar 18, 2025
Ury: Prioritizing looks in dating fails because novelty decays
“And so it's just this idea of, yes, a lot of what is sexually exciting to people is novelty. And so instead of being disappointed or frustrated by that in a monogamous long-term relationship, you can just think about the fact that I acknowledge that that will …”
Mar 18, 2025
Ury: Maintaining old friendships is a proxy for partner loyalty
“Of course, that's a hard thing to find out on a first date, but one proxy for that that I found is asking people about old friendships. People who have friendships from different phases of their life, do they hang on to people, or when they move, do they let t…”
Mar 18, 2025
Ury: Shared political views have become a proxy for core values in dating
“Fast forward to this year, I would say that's no longer the case, that people really do care about political views, because it's moved into the category of values, and so people are really thinking about if we share political views, that's a proxy for do we sh…”
Mar 18, 2025 negative
Logan Ury: Young generations lack rejection resilience needed in dating and life
“I am genuinely concerned that because of different societal factors, because of people who maybe lost out on some social skills during the pandemic, because of people who live a lot of their lives online, there is not that rejection resilience that many of us …”
Mar 18, 2025 negative
Ury: Breakups are not the right moment to provide broad feedback
“Another thing to keep in mind is I don't think it's the opportunity to give somebody feedback. I think that can be very painful for somebody. So sometimes in a breakup scenario, the person will be like, tell me what I did wrong. Tell me when you fell out of lo…”
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Mar 18, 2025
Ury: Dating like a scientist to test partner assumptions yields happier outcomes
“Being more in touch with who you are, how you show up in different situations, what personality traits trigger you to feel more anxious or insecure, all of that is data that just helps you be a happier person, and so something that I really promote people do i…”
Mar 18, 2025 positive
Ury: Second dates come from creating fun experiences, not physical attractiveness
“So one thing that I've done through my research is look at people who are consistently getting asked on second or third dates. Look at people who people really are drawn to, and when I talk to these people, it's not what you might think. They're the tallest pe…”
Mar 18, 2025 positive
Logan Ury: Pointing Out Mildly Embarrassing Issues Builds Closeness and Safety
“Rather than finding that it embarrasses people, I find that, especially, like, a first meeting, that it really makes them feel closer to me, because it's like, they feel comfortable enough to tell me the slightly embarrassing thing, therefore, I am safe with t…”
Mar 18, 2025
Ury: Multi-dating helps anxiously attached daters relax and avoid premature fixation
“So there are people out there that are really anxiously attached, and when they meet someone, their brain goes into, I need to lock it down. I don't want to date anymore, so I just want to date them. So how can I become exclusive with them? And for those peopl…”
Mar 18, 2025
Mar 18, 2025 neutral
Dec 23, 2025 neutral
Ury: Securely attached people leave dating pools faster, skewing remaining demographics
“What happens is 50% of the population is secure, which sounds like a good thing, but those people are so good at being in relationships that they often get snatched up, and you have the anxious and avoidant people dating each other.”