empathy
7 statements across 7 episodes · 5 bullish · 2 bearish · 7 people on the record · first statement Feb 21, 2018 by Dacher Keltner · across every show →
Everything said about empathy, oldest first
Feb 21, 2018 positive
Parents Foster Empathy by Asking Reflective Questions Rather Than Preaching
“How you get them to empathize is by asking questions and then being quiet and letting the kids reason. So, you know, if a conflict's happening, the parent who leads the kids towards empathy is saying things like, God, you know, why is your little sister crying…”
Feb 5, 2019 negative
Headlee: Saying 'I Know How You Feel' Is The Worst Response
“What I'm usually talking about in this is when someone comes to you with something which is a struggle or a source of pain for them, and we then tell them about a time when we went through what we say was the same thing. I know just how you feel, we say. Which…”
Apr 16, 2019 positive
Gross: Managers must act as game designers aligning company and employee desires
“Ultimately, you're kind of a game designer as a manager and as a leader, and you want to design the best game that both aligns company incentives and employees desires. And the real way to understand people is kind of through this deeper substrate level where …”
Mar 17, 2020 positive
Esther Wojcicki: Building genuine empathy requires real-world, face-to-face interaction
“Well, you ruin empathy by not having an opportunity To interact with other people. I mean, when you interact with other people, and you see how they feel, and you see their emotions, and then you can put yourself in their shoes, that builds empathy.”
Dec 8, 2020 positive
Sahil Lavingia: Immersing in any book perspective inevitably generates empathy for it
“I've never read a book and come out of it being less convinced of the argument, even though I was not on the side of the argument. Like, when you spend that much time sort of looking at a subject from a specific perspective, you just end up becoming more empat…”
Jul 12, 2022 negative