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Aarons-Mele warns founders to practice vulnerability without broadcasting personal messes
“Oversharing in the social media age is a temptation that a lot of entrepreneurs might feel, actually, because a lot of our favorite entrepreneurs are Do seem to be able to share a lot, right, when they get on Guy's show, but they've already made their billion …”
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Aarons-Mele: Introversion is about energy management, not shyness
“Happy introverts who don't have overwhelming social anxiety. We can talk about that in a minute. Need to manage their energy. I always say, Oprah, huge introvert, talks about it all the time. It's not about, can I hold the room? Am I funny? Am I shy? It's just…”
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Aarons-Mele: Holding a room is a learnable skill like Excel
“The thing about it is you can learn how to hold a room. It's a skill. It's a total skill. It's like learning how to run a meeting. It's like Excel. When you love what you do and you have passion, you can absolutely learn to talk about it in a way that compels …”
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Aarons-Mele argues Zoom meetings act as draining performances causing passive disengagement
“A Zoom meeting is really a performance, especially if you're talking. If you're not talking and you're on Zoom, you're actually more likely to become disengaged and depressed. So Zoom is often draining for everyone, even introverts.”
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Aarons-Mele notes every successful entrepreneur experiences severe, nauseating pitch nervousness
“Don't ever think that the fact that you get nervous Before you go talk to people and you want to throw up and you want to hide in the bathroom means that you can't be a successful entrepreneur because every successful entrepreneur feels that way.”
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Aarons-Mele coined 'entrepreneurship porn' to critique the always-on founder myth
“I actually coined the term entrepreneurship porn in an article in Harvard Business Review, I think in 2013, when I wrote about the idea that entrepreneurs had to be tireless, charismatic, always on, on the cover of Fast Company Magazine, and in fact that most …”
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Aarons-Mele: Praising others on LinkedIn scientifically improves mood and cuts anxiety
“The act of getting out of your head and saying something nice to someone else. It changes your mood. This is actually scientifically proven. So if you find yourself stewing in a bit of anxiety right now about the future and who isn't, write an endorsement for …”
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Aarons-Mele: Overwhelmed networkers fail by making big asks too early
“I think that the thing that people who get overly overwhelmed by the idea of I have to be networking do is that they reach out right away with too big an ask. You know, they're asking someone to marry them when they haven't even been on a first date.”
Disclosure
Aarons-Mele: Women Online lost 30% of business overnight in March 2020
“When we had that Oh my gosh, we've lost 30% of our business overnight in March this year.”
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Aarons-Mele: Feelings of anxiety do not reflect factual reality
“And that helped me build so much resilience because I learned, like, just because I feel this way doesn't mean it's true.”
Disclosure
Aarons-Mele maintains a ratio of three audio calls per video meeting
“For every one Zoom, I try to do three audio calls, because I think it recharges people.”