May 10, 2021 · 55m · how-i-built-this
Cisco Systems & Urban Decay: Sandy Lerner (2018)
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In this episode of How I Built This, tech pioneer Sandy Lerner details the grueling founding and eventual ouster from Cisco Systems, followed by her audacious reinventions across animal welfare, the cosmetics industry, sustainable agriculture, and literature.
How this conversation actually went
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speaking balance: gold is Guy, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Lerner forcefully shuts down Raz's attempt to romanticize the startup struggle as exciting, comparing it instead to being shelled in a muddy World War I trench with mustard gas and no sleep.
Hardest push from Guy ▶ 39:05 Pressing on the $170M payoutRaz challenges Lerner's sense of victimization by raising Cisco's counter-perspective that the founders walked away with $170 million and should have simply enjoyed their immense wealth.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 27:45 Rebutting VC logic on public protocolsWhen Raz suggests VCs were reasonable to think anyone could replicate public domain technology, Lerner bluntly counters: 'Except that if everybody could do it, why didn't they?'
Guy holds their own ▶ 35:42 Raz analyzes vesting schedule implicationsRaz demonstrates immediate technical grasp of startup equity mechanics, instantly identifying that being fired two years into a four-year vesting cliff meant Lerner was being stripped of half her net worth.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Guy as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Guy pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Childhood in California, Farm Life, and Encountering Sexism | 1 | 1 | 1 | 0 | Guy Raz establishes biographical background with open-ended questions about Lerner's childhood and early work experiences. Lerner shares colorful anecdotes about her aunts, farm life, and her first encounter with workplace sexism at a local bank. | |
| Accelerated College Studies and Pivot to Computer Programming | 2 | 2 | 1 | 0 | Raz asks about her rapid completion of college and pivot from Marxist economics to computing. Lerner explains the financial pragmatism of computer programming in the 1970s. | |
| Stanford Computing Subculture and the LOTS Volunteer Group | 2 | 5 | 3 | 1 | When Raz asks if programming came intuitively to her, Lerner firmly rejects the premise, pointing out she had to work intensely to catch up on advanced math and physics denied to high school girls. She elaborates on the egalitarian subculture of the LOTS volunteer group at Stanford. | |
| Meeting Len Bosack and the Formation of an Intellectual Partnership | 3 | 5 | 3 | 1 | Raz explores the origins of Cisco's networking technology at Stanford. Lerner corrects Raz's assumption that they were motivated to build networks for Stanford's sake, explaining the public-service, collaborative ethos of the ARPANET community. | |
| Commercial Frustrations, Stanford Red Tape, and Founding Cisco | 2 | 3 | 2 | 1 | Lerner recounts Stanford's refusal to license networking protocols and the informal $5 incorporation of Cisco. She also highlights the institutional sexism she faced at the business school, contrasting her administrative authority with being relegated to eat with faculty wives. | |
| Living Room Manufacturing and the Bootstrapping Struggle | 2 | 4 | 2 | 1 | Raz inquires about the physical production and funding of the routers. Lerner corrects Raz regarding their roles, emphasizing that Cisco was fundamentally a hardware company driven by Bosack's engineering genius. | |
| Pitching Skeptical Investors and the Wartime Startup Mentality | 2 | 6 | 6 | 2 | Lerner explains why dozens of VCs rejected Cisco, pushing back sharply when Raz suggests VC skepticism made sense. When Raz asks if the bootstrapping phase was exciting, Lerner aggressively dismisses the romanticization, comparing it to being shelled in a WWI trench. | |
| Sequoia Capital Investment, Corporate Shifts, and Executive Friction | 3 | 4 | 4 | 1 | Lerner details the culture clash after Don Valentine invested and installed John Morgridge as CEO. She describes the hostile environment and her clash with Valentine over predicting Cisco would become a billion-dollar company. | |
| The Sudden Ouster, Solidarity Resignation, and Emotional Fallout | 4 | 5 | 4 | 4 | Lerner describes being abruptly fired by Morgridge and Bosack's immediate resignation in solidarity. Raz pushes back by raising Cisco's perspective that the founders walked away extremely wealthy with $170 million, prompting Lerner to explain the devastating loss of identity. | |
| Redirecting Networking Expertise into Animal Rescue: PetNet | 3 | 5 | 4 | 1 | Lerner explains redirecting her technical knowledge into PetNet before creating Urban Decay to disrupt conventional beauty standards. When Raz asks if mastering cosmetics required years of study, Lerner demystifies the industry by calling it remarkably simple. | |
| Ayrshire Farm and the Enduring Legacy with Len Bosack | 2 | 3 | 2 | 1 | Lerner details the operational difficulties of establishing a humane, organic livestock farm in Virginia. She also discusses her enduring, non-romantic partnership and joint philanthropic foundation with Bosack. | |
| Reflections on Wealth, Value Systems, and a One-Word Epitaph | 3 | 4 | 3 | 3 | Raz presses on the immense wealth Lerner surrendered by selling her Cisco shares early. Lerner defends the decision as necessary for personal independence and quality of life, concluding with a definition of her work ethic and one-word epitaph. |