Fisher: Transactional digital communication hurts young people's ability to have difficult conversations
Jefferson Fisher · Number 1 Communication Expert: Stop Doing This… People Will Like You More | Jefferson Fisher · Apr 23, 2025 · at 54:35
Trial attorney and communication expert Jefferson Fisher and host Codie Sanchez discuss whether younger generations struggle more with direct, uncomfortable face-to-face communication.
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“Another part of it is I do believe that there's so much transactional communication from text to Kids on Snapchat that only communicate by emojis, and you have TikTok, and you have every other app that you and I never had, and coming up to see that, I've seen the consequence of that is they don't know how to perform in the headlights. They don't know how to bring up that very difficult conversation. They have a hard time opening up.”
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