Leadership coach Dr. Shadé Zahrai explains non-verbal body language cues that impact charisma and workplace presence.
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Zahrai: Research shows individuals can intentionally change personality traits
“We do know from research and my own is you can actually change a personality trait if you choose to.”
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Zahrai: Pure positive visualization drains the energy required to reach goals
“There was a study that came out in the, it was probably the mid-twenty tens, and they looked at the role of, they called it positive fantasies. So the term manifesting, or it's not in the literature, but positive fantasies about where you want to be. And they …”
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Dr. Zahrai: Toxic individuals must be removed because they leave too big a footprint
“If you know that someone unfortunately has that tendency, again, we're separating person from toxic behavior, but for the sake of illustration, I'll just say the toxic person, cut them out. It's too hard. They leave too big of a footprint in a team and same wi…”
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Dr. Zahrai: Self-Doubt Stems From Expectation Bias And Doubting Personal Capability
“You, Create the reality that you have in your mind, because what you expect, you tend to notice. And so when we apply that to something like self doubt and holding ourselves back, self doubt is entirely doubting our worthiness, our capability, our control, our…”
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Zahrai: Humans are emotional beings who rationalize, making EQ a superpower
“I say that emotional intelligence is a leadership and business superpower because we think we're rational beings, but we're not. We're emotional beings who rationalize.”
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Zahrai: Self-Doubt Only Becomes Damaging When Internalized as Personal Identity
“Self-doubt itself is not the enemy. We've like wrongly vilified it. Self-doubt should be like the little ping pong ball floating on the top. It's there. We hear it, but we can decide what we do with it. Where it becomes damaging is where it becomes the golf ba…”