The Exchanges

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Every exchange below was scored with names hidden, four dimensions each from 1 to 5. An exchange's score is 0.30·directness + 0.30·coherence + 0.25·precision + 0.15·compression. The published score averages the raw tape exchange scores and shrinks small samples toward the cohort mean, so five great answers can't beat twenty good ones. Produced feed rows count only toward coarse estimates, never toward a full score.

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Answered raw tape D 5 · C 5 · P 5 · Cm 4 4.85

Q work with someone, and that they were trained well, and they were able to help you do it. So I'm curious, I mean, I have a lot of questions now, basically, based on this. Uh, my, my first question is, do you think having gone through the coaching years before made it easier for you to process the, the, the events that happened and the loss that ensued? Or no?

A A hundred percent. A hundred percent. Because I had already separated my identity from the company, right? Like my clients, sometimes by accident, they would say Aldo Partners instead of Clado Partners, which was the company name, right? And I felt the same way sometimes, right? I felt the goals of the company are my goals and, and, and vice versa. So having Having done that, having that, that, that one pager that I still today send to people, I said, this is how you get to know me, these are my values, my skills, my purpose in life, really helped me a lot, because I just need to find a new home, um, for that practice. Um, what it also helped me, it helped me prepare, um, it helped me be ready for somebody to, to help me, right? Because after working with Kim Sumner, I actually, um, engaged a executive coach as well. Her name is Sandra Ruiz, and so I had with her bi-weekly sessions, uh, to talk through things, and she would reflect on what I was, we were just together, reflect on what was happening with the company and the different relationships that were important to, um, to manage that company, um, So I think I, I had become a lot more open in talking about my thoughts, my feelings, what was deepest inside me. So for sure, all that coaching helped me to, to be much more prepared for the counseling.

AI assessment note: “A hundred percent. A hundred percent. Because I had already separated my identity from the company”

Answered raw tape D 4 · C 4 · P 4 · Cm 4 4.00

Q What was the hardest thing about the career coaching for you?

A The motivated skills was really revealing, right? Because it doesn't talk about what are your skills, very specifically, what are your motivated skills? And she asked me to talk about experiences that I had as a kid. What did I do, enjoy doing as a kid, and then later in life. And so, for example, one of those things that I enjoyed doing was acting on the stage, playing clarinet on the stage, and later live public speaking. So she said, okay, so your motivated skills is performing. You need to find more opportunities. To use that skill. And then another one, which was really hard for me, which is that when I had, um, um, walked into this a few times, which is that, um, my mind is very analytical. I'm, uh, you know, trained as a chemical engineer and did really well on that. And therefore, you know, a career, for example, as a, uh, McKinsey consultant would make a lot of sense, right? Because they need those analytical skills. The reality is that, or like a PhD, right? Become a PhD. Do research. But the reality is that while that is a skill that I have, and I like applying it now and then, It's not something I want to dedicate my life to. For me, you know, leadership, innovation, creativity, bringing people together are so much more, um, stimulating, motivating for me. So this is when I discovered why, for example, when I was doing my MBA and I was not succeeding in really getti…

AI assessment note: “another one, which was really hard for me, which is that”

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