Apr 23, 2023 · 39m · we-live-to-build
He Spent 3.5 Hours Telling Them Not to Hire Him
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Red Chocolate North America President Glenn Gardone joins host Sean Weisbrot on 'The We Live to Build' podcast to discuss his career journey, scaling international consumer brands, and managing the delicate balance between entrepreneurial ego and organizational humility.
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Every chapter scored 0–10 on four independent dynamics. Hover any point for the reasoning behind the score. Sean holds 39.1% of the talking time here. How this is scored →
Sean as informed peer 3.0 Guest teaching 2.5 Guest disagreement 1.6 Sean pushing back 1.0
speaking balance: gold is Sean, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Sharpest disagreement ▶ 36:22 Glenn dismisses psilocybin for a 'swift kick in the ass'
Glenn directly brushes aside Sean's elaborate explanation of psilocybin and ego death, countering that harsh real-world feedback is what truly resets an out-of-control ego.
Hardest push from Sean ▶ 16:36 Sean reframes Glenn's mentor story as coworker lazinessSean explicitly challenges the lesson of Glenn's mentor anecdote, asserting that the older colleagues were simply lazy workers trying to avoid being outshined.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 8:15 Glenn educates Sean on the psychology of ego over geographyGlenn directly rejects Sean's regional stereotype thesis, explaining that ego stems from internal insecurity and lack of humility rather than geography.
Sean holds their own ▶ 5:35 Sean demonstrates international market positioning expertiseSean provides a detailed, knowledgeable breakdown of how American fast food brands like McDonald's and KFC successfully repositioned as aspirational dining in China.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Sean as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Sean pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Glenn's Career Journey and the 3.5-Hour Anti-Pitch | 0 | 1 | 1 | 0 | Glenn monologues through his 30-year CPG background, private equity exits, and his four-hour initial pitch where he advised Red Chocolate against entering the US market. The host asks an open introductory question and does not intervene. | |
| Scaling Red Chocolate and Navigating the Pandemic | 6 | 2 | 1 | 1 | Sean demonstrates domain knowledge regarding international brand expansion by detailing how Western fast food and luxury brands repositioned themselves in China. Glenn concurs and adds his perspective on why culturally insensitive expansion fails. | |
| The Dual Nature of Ego: Protection, Passion, and Humility | 3 | 4 | 3 | 1 | When Sean asks whether ego correlates with regional culture such as New York versus Georgia, Glenn politely disagrees. Glenn reframes ego as a personal manifestation of insecurity or lacking humility rather than geographic location. | |
| The Willy Wonka Connection and the Joy of Chocolate | 3 | 3 | 1 | 1 | Sean reflects on his upbringing giving him strong self-regard and questions why self-love is often labeled arrogant. Glenn responds by drawing a line between healthy self-respect practiced with humility versus reckless ego. | |
| Mentorship, Executive Coaching, and Pacing Ambition | 3 | 5 | 4 | 5 | Sean pushes back on Glenn's mentor anecdote by asserting that the senior employees were just lazy and threatened by high performance. Glenn firmly rejects that framing, explaining that his own uncalibrated ego was genuinely hurting the organizational culture. | |
| Inclusive Leadership and Empowering Smart Teams | 3 | 2 | 1 | 0 | Sean describes his flat management structure and personal touchpoints with offshore staff. Glenn shares his philosophy on ensuring everyone has a seat at the table while keeping expectations realistic. | |
| Founder Ego as a Growth Bottleneck | 4 | 2 | 1 | 1 | Both host and guest exchange candid stories about financial success inflating their egos. Sean details earning high profits in his early thirties and developing condescension, while Glenn recalls being humbled after selling his second company. | |
| Vulnerability and Overcoming Personal Ego Deflation | 2 | 1 | 0 | 0 | Sean shares a lengthy vulnerable personal monologue about gaining weight, getting fat-shamed on a date, and using that ego deflation to overhaul his lifestyle. Glenn listens supportively. | |
| Professional Misconceptions and Family Sacrifices | 1 | 2 | 0 | 0 | Glenn reflects on professional blind spots revealed by his executive coach and personal regrets regarding family time sacrificed over 2,900 hotel nights. The dynamic is collaborative and reflective. | |
| Managing Ego, Humility, and Ego Death | 5 | 3 | 4 | 1 | Sean introduces psilocybin and ego death as therapeutic tools to dissolve excessive ego. Glenn lightheartedly dismisses the need for psychedelics, arguing that real-world consequences and a metaphorical swift kick in the ass achieve the same result. |
Statements from this episode (11)
Glenn Gardone sold five companies over 12 years in private equity
“And fast forward about let's see, 12 years later as I started the journey on the private equity side, and Had sold the company, and, ah, we've done it five times”
Red Chocolate is the number one chocolate on Home Shopping Network
“You'll find us as the number one chocolate home shopping network.”
Red Chocolate grossed $29 million in the US and 4x globally
“Just the U.S. Globally, we're about four times that size. We're in about 28 countries now. When I joined, we were in about 18 countries.”
Weisbrot: Fast food brands had to reposition as upscale in Asia
“Companies that were like, you know, what Americans would consider low class food, fast food, they actually were forced to reinvent themselves in Southeast Asia to be a middle class or an upper class experience. Where the meals are more expensive, but it's a si…”
Weisbrot: Legacy Corporate Employees Discourage Ambitious Juniors Out of Laziness
“What I hear from that story is that those people were lazy and didn't want you showing them up. They don't want you to make their job harder by setting an example to other people that this is what you should expect from your employees.”
Sidelining ego-driven founders allowed Gardone to scale one company by 100x
“Four times I walked into a situation like that, and we, you know, quintupled the size of the company, and, you know, one we did over a hundred times the size of the company, because we didn't have that that ego cloud. We, you know, put them out to pasture, so …”
Weisbrot: Previous business grossed over $15M in under two years
“I didn't sell my business, but I had this business that grossed over fifteen million dollars in a slightly less than two year period.”
People who repeatedly make the same mistake and apologize are con artists
“The person that sits there and makes the same mistake over and over again, and apologizes each and every time, they're a con artist. They're an absolute con artist.”
Weisbrot: People with large egos benefit massively from psilocybin trips
“The people who have the largest egos tend to get a massive benefit from going on a hallucinogenic trip with psilocybin. Because it allows your brain to separate your ego from your consciousness in a way that allows you to understand the world from a different …”