Kim Scott

17 statements across 2 episodes · 3 bullish · 4 bearish · 2 people on the record · first statement Jun 18, 2023 by Melissa Tan · said 20 times in 7 episodes since 2023 · across every show →

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Jun 18, 2023
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Tan: Kim Scott workshopped Radical Candor at Dropbox before publishing
“Interestingly enough, Kim Scott was at Dropbox for a short period of time. So when I joined Dropbox, she was actually on my interview panel and we overlapped for three months. And she actually workshopped that book with our team before, or before she published…”
Melissa Tan Jun 18, 2023 ▶ 42:05 Building high-performing teams | Melissa Tan (Webflow, Dropbox, Canva)
Dec 10, 2023 negative
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Scott: Withholding critical feedback from underperformers causes top performers to quit
“If I didn't fire Bob, I was gonna lose all my best performers, because not only had it been unfair to Bob not to tell him, I also had been unfair to everyone on the team and they were frustrated. Their deliverables were late because his deliverables were late.…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 24:22 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Relationships don't scale across organizations, but workplace culture does
“No matter how talented you are, relationships don't scale. But she did do those things for her direct reports and the people who she worked most closely with, all, all of us. And when a leader treats their team, the people who they interact with on a day to da…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 13:13 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 negative
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Scott: Obnoxious aggression is inefficient because people tune out the feedback
“Part of the problem with obnoxious aggression is that you harm other people, but it's also inefficient because when you act like that, people can't hear what you're saying, so you're wasting your breath, you know.”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 59:38 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Establishing radical candor requires soliciting criticism before giving it
“There's really an order of operations to radical candor, and if you begin with soliciting criticism, then you take the first and most important step to improving your relationship with that person enough that, that it becomes easier for you to give it as well …”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 37:17 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Structure direct report career conversations across three 45-minute sessions
“I think one of the really important things that all managers can do for their direct reports to show that they care is to have real meaningful career conversations where you talk about sort of their life story, sort of their past, whatever part of it they're c…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 33:56 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
Assertion Not checkable as stated
Scott: Likability bias makes it harder for women to challenge directly
“The sort of likability competence bias that a lot of women face pushed me, especially early in my career, in the wrong direction on challenge directly, and it made it much harder for me to, because often I would say something, and I would say it even more gent…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 28:53 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 negative
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Scott: Becoming a leader makes you significantly more prone to bullying
“When you become a leader, you're much more prone to bullying, even if you don't think of yourself as a bully”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 1:14:11 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Managers must challenge directly and highlight mistake patterns against defensiveness
“Sometimes it's useful to show someone a pattern. All of the careless mistakes to, especially if someone is, is defense, is defensive, or if you think they're likely to be defensive. If you think they're likely to do to you what I did to my boss, I don't know. …”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 31:48 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 positive
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Scott: Reading fiction is the best way for leaders to build compassion
“I believe that the more novels people read, the better, that's the, if people often ask me, like, what can I do to move up on the care personally dimension of radical candor? And read more novels. This is the best way I know of to build compassion for other pe…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 1:17:18 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Aggressive leaders improve when coached through enlightened self-interest
“Very often the leaders who are low on the care personally dimension, they do care about their results and they do care about their own careers. And so when you sort of explain this to them in terms of enlightened self-interest, they tend to get better at it.”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 58:22 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: 90% of leaders make 90% of their mistakes in ruinous empathy
“I would say 90% of us make 90% of our mistakes in that ruinous empathy bucket. It's by far and away the most common problem”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 7:12 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: People fear negative emotional reactions to feedback more than they occur
“I think we do fear someone else getting upset more often than they actually get upset. We have kind of a negative, negativity bias when it comes to part of the reason why we're reluctant to give feedback.”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 32:29 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 positive
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Scott: Praise works better than criticism to reinforce positive manager behaviors
“And if you want, if there are things that your boss Does that you appreciate and you want your boss to do more of those things? Praise is a better tool for that than criticism.”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 54:42 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023
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Scott: Focusing on caring for others helps leaders overcome people-pleasing
“One of the things that was helpful for me anyway, so you can tell me if it's helpful for you, what was realizing that my job was not to be liked. My job was to care about other people and to get out of my own head and to become others focused is what helped me…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 28:15 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 negative
Disclosure
Scott: I fired a coaching client for giving feedback over Slack
“I once coached someone who kept giving feedback over Slack and I finally just quit coaching him. I was like, I, if you keep making this mistake, I'm not, I can't be your coach.”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 18:27 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
Dec 10, 2023 positive
Disclosure
Scott: Immediate two-minute feedback is more important than being on time
“But if you don't, if it's not possible, and often it was not possible for me in my career to sort of schedule my time that way, I just decided that these moments of management were more important than being on time to my next meeting. And so I was just late so…”
Kim Scott Dec 10, 2023 ▶ 52:56 Radical Candor: From theory to practice with author Kim Scott
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