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Headlee: Cognitive Diversity Drives Innovation While Seeking Agreement Hinders It
“Agreement is, is not a great goal if what you're trying to do is be innovative or creative in your problem solving. Do cognitive diversity is extremely helpful. That's when you'll get your best ideas.”
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Headlee: Evolutionary biology makes humans naturally poor listeners
“Listening is really hard. I'm not saying that to make you feel better, although I hope it does make you feel better. It's not hard because of our smartphones. It's not hard because we're distracted. It's hard because human beings, the species homo sapien does …”
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Headlee: Saying 'I Know How You Feel' Is The Worst Response
“What I'm usually talking about in this is when someone comes to you with something which is a struggle or a source of pain for them, and we then tell them about a time when we went through what we say was the same thing. I know just how you feel, we say. Which…”
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Headlee: Musicians Are Among the Only Professionals Trained to Listen
“Musicians are one of the only professions who are actually trained to listen. You cannot succeed as a musician unless you're a very careful listener.”
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Headlee: Many People Learn Public Speaking, but Very Few Learn Listening
“Lots of people get training in public speaking. Very few people actually get training in listening.”
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Headlee: Vertical Listening Requires Focus That Has Been Disappearing Over Decades
“To listen vertically, you're, it's like all of the parts, the voices in the orchestra are sort of spanning out like a deck of cards... Vertical listening is where you're hearing all kinds of different voices joining together to make one overall sound. That's a…”
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Headlee: Spoken Communication Requires One Thought Per Sentence
“You know, no subordinate clauses wet, no complicated sentence structures, et cetera. One thought per sentence. You're trying to create you're trying to sculpt information so that it can be easily understood and absorbed by the brain.”
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Headlee: Almost Any News Report Fits the Fairy Tale Narrative Framework
“Like, there's almost no news report you can't put into that framework, that you can't put into the fairy tale framework.”
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Headlee: News Stories Fail If Listeners Cannot Explain Them
“By the end of this, if that person listening can't turn to their spouse or whatever friend next to them and explain what the story is, then I failed.”
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Headlee: Interviewers must lead with core questions rather than conversational windups
“When you start that interview, that first question needs to be a good one. It needs to get to the meat of it. It can be a provocative question. It can be a question that, that reveals how well you know the material But for the most part, that needs to be getti…”
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Headlee: Interviews are one-sided spotlights, not mutual exchanges of information
“So it's not a mutual exchange of information in an interview. It's really way more one-sided than that because the interviewer, again, is supposed to shine the light on their guest and get the expertise from the guest.”
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Headlee: Unsolicited Advice Is Almost Always a Bad Idea
“We do not like to get unsolicited advice, which is pretty much always a bad idea. That's the time in which we're going to come away, even if we have learned something valuable, we'll come away not feeling great about it.”
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Headlee: Sustaining true conversation is difficult beyond four people
“When I'm talking about conversation, I'm almost always referring to one person talking to another, and the reason for that is it, it's really hard to sustain that level of attention and focus once you get more people involved. I think you could do it with thre…”
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Headlee: Listening well requires actively considering what someone says, not just hearing
“That's the bare minimum of listening is to at least learn something from them. To listen well is not just though to hear what they're saying, but to consider it.”
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Headlee outlines three modes of listening: evaluative, interpretive, and transformative
“There's the evaluative listening, where you're just deciding whether that person's right or wrong, what they're saying is true or false. And then there's interpretive, where you're trying to understand, and there's transformative, where you could be changed by…”
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Headlee: Vocal Cues Are Essential for Empathy and Human Recognition
“One of the best ways to create that understanding and that empathic bond is to hear someone's voice.
In other words, human beings are such sophisticated communicators.
There is so much information being transmitted just through the sound of somebody's voice.…”
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Headlee: Improv training helps people overcome conversational narcissism
“So improv is a really great way to not only make you aware of your tendency to do that, to shift it, but it also is a way to train yourself out of it.”
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Headlee: Brain Softens Memories of Pain to Prevent Psychological Dysfunction
“The fact of the matter is, is that when we experience in any kind of pain or travail, your brain immediately Gets to work on softening that memory. Literally right after it happened. And that's a really good reason, because if we actually remembered pain to it…”
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Headlee: Popular Music Requires Less Focus Than Classical Music
“Popular music has always been intended to be, to require less focus and attention.
Than classical.”
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Headlee: Stories Require Continuous Momentum Without Gaps to Keep Listeners Engaged
“She used to say that a story is like a shark. It has to keep moving forward or it dies, right? Or you can imagine it as a trapeze, where the listener, you have to provide that next rung for the listener. There can't be any gaps or they fall.”
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Headlee: Effective conversation requires an equal balance of talking and listening
“The best model for a good conversation is a friendly game of catch. And there's a number of reasons for that. The most obvious is that in a game of catch, you can't throw more than you catch. It's a perfectly even balance between throwing and catching, just as…”
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Headlee: Ensemble musicians must continuously listen to peers, not just conductors
“If you're playing in an orchestra You can't just watch the conductor, right, who's keeping the beat. You have to actually listen to everyone around you. For tuning, you have to be very careful about shifts in tuning, because both choirs and instrumental groups…”
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Headlee: Classical Music Radio Hosting Demands Rare Specialized Domain Knowledge
“Finding classical music hosts, as it turns out, is quite difficult because they have to have all the skills of any other radio host, but then they also have to have very specialized knowledge That allows them to pronounce all those names and works properly. Th…”
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Headlee: Specific color descriptions make audio storytelling more vivid
“Colors are really powerful to the ear. Don't tell us she was wearing a heavy jacket. Say she was wearing a heaven, a heavy fuchsia jackdown jacket, right, with green and purple and pink. Those are really loud when you hear them.”
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Headlee: Radio broadcasting is fundamentally about people talking about people
“Radio is people talking to people about people. And it doesn't matter if it's an story about Wall Street or the military or whatever it is. In the end, it is people talking to other people about yet other people.”