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Dr. Sue Johnson: Trust grows when vulnerability is met with emotional responsiveness
“You're based, you're constantly building trust, and how do you build trust? You take risks with each other, you show yourself, you're open and accessible, and you take risks with each other, and when one of you takes a risk, the other one responds.”
Dr. Sue Johnson: Accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement predict relationship safety
“Accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement, ARE the variables in research that predict the safety of a bond, any bond between any two people of any age, right?”
Johnson: Avoidance worsens emotional problems by preventing corrective experiences
“Avoidance is a lousy strategy with emotional problems. I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about anything. Depression, anxiety. It's lousy strategy, ok? It's, it sets you up. You never face the problem, so you never have any new corrective experie…”