Murphy: Performing under pressure shares the same path as living a fulfilling life
Jim Murphy · 7 Principles of Inner Excellence to Stay Calm Under Fire | Jim Murphy · Nov 25, 2025 · at 3:38
Performance coach Jim Murphy explains to Shane Parrish the core realization behind his coaching philosophy and book Inner Excellence.
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“And then when I found out that to teach someone how to have the most poise under the most pressure is the same path as living the best possible life, a meaningful, fulfilling life with amazing experiences and deep, enriching relationships where you're learning and growing and making a difference. It's the same path, the wholehearted path.”
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