Author and professional boxer Ed Latimore discusses his philosophy of self-discipline and emotional detachment with Shane Parrish.
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Latimore: Boxing should never be pursued for money, attention, or spite
“You shouldn't do it for money because there ain't no money in boxing. You shouldn't do it for, to prove the haters wrong because they still want to hate. Now they're just going to wait for you to mess up and you definitely shouldn't do it for any female attent…”
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Latimore: Individual pursuit of self-interest ultimately benefits the group
“If you just let people pursue their interests, eventually they'll do what's best for the group, and I really believe that”
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Latimore: Growth increases demand for your time from those below you
“As you radiate that positive energy, as you become a better person, as you become a more influential person, as you improve your life, people go, that's a great person. I want to spend more time around that person. But then a funny thing happens. They are, the…”
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Latimore: Publicly announcing goals reduces motivation via premature validation
“We're self-promoting what we plan to do, and then we get a bunch of people to go, oh, man, good luck. Go for it. You go, girl, whatever you see, and your brain, and this, I mean, this is true. There's a lot of research on this. Your brain goes, holy shit, look…”
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Latimore: Happiness is a dynamic rate of change, not a static baseline
“Happiness is not an average rate, man. It's a rate of change. You gotta go thinking in calculus again, right? If a person is sitting still, no matter where they're at, whether they have a bunch, let's use money. If a person has a bunch of money or no money, th…”
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Latimore: Publicly announcing goals triggers premature social approval and reduces follow-through
“We're self-promoting what we plan to do, and then we get a bunch of people to go, oh, man, good luck. Go for it. You go, girl, whatever you see, and your brain, and this, I mean, this is true. There's a lot of research on this. Your brain goes, holy shit, look…”