Author and former professional boxer Ed Latimore explains his philosophy of happiness to host Shane Parrish.
Insight
Latimore: Boxing should never be pursued for money, attention, or spite
“You shouldn't do it for money because there ain't no money in boxing. You shouldn't do it for, to prove the haters wrong because they still want to hate. Now they're just going to wait for you to mess up and you definitely shouldn't do it for any female attent…”
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Latimore: Individual pursuit of self-interest ultimately benefits the group
“If you just let people pursue their interests, eventually they'll do what's best for the group, and I really believe that”
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Latimore: Growth increases demand for your time from those below you
“As you radiate that positive energy, as you become a better person, as you become a more influential person, as you improve your life, people go, that's a great person. I want to spend more time around that person. But then a funny thing happens. They are, the…”
Insight
Latimore: Publicly announcing goals reduces motivation via premature validation
“We're self-promoting what we plan to do, and then we get a bunch of people to go, oh, man, good luck. Go for it. You go, girl, whatever you see, and your brain, and this, I mean, this is true. There's a lot of research on this. Your brain goes, holy shit, look…”
Insight
Latimore: Publicly announcing goals triggers premature social approval and reduces follow-through
“We're self-promoting what we plan to do, and then we get a bunch of people to go, oh, man, good luck. Go for it. You go, girl, whatever you see, and your brain, and this, I mean, this is true. There's a lot of research on this. Your brain goes, holy shit, look…”
Opinion
Latimore: Still largely anti-higher education despite studying physics as adult
“I used to be huge anti-higher education. For the most part, I still am. The difference is now I'm, you know, an adult in school pursuing a physics degree, but even there was a plan for that.”