Eyal: Force your boss to prioritize instead of just saying no
Nir Eyal · #104 Nir Eyal: Mastering Indistraction · Feb 16, 2021 · at 49:43
Author Nir Eyal critiques standard workplace productivity advice about telling bosses no.
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“One of my pet peeves in the personal productivity community is this horrible advice that I'm sure we've all heard a million times, which says, if you want to be more productive, if you want to focus, if you want to not get distracted, you learn, need to learn how to say no, right? Haven't we all heard that? Learn how to say no to people. What kind of stupid advice is that? You're going to go to your boss, the person who pays your bills, you're going to tell that person no, you're going to get fired. That's horrible advice. Exactly. So that's just the dumbest advice I've ever heard. Instead, don't be the person who says no. You want to make your boss the one who says no in terms of what projects you should work on and what you should not work out.”
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