Coloroso: Handling mistakes requires owning, fixing, learning, and moving on
Barbara Coloroso · #44 Barbara Coloroso: The Kids Are Worth It · Oct 30, 2018 · at 12:17
Educator Barbara Coloroso defines her four-step formula for teaching accountability when children make unintentional mistakes at home or school.
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“With a mistake, you own it, you fix it, you learn from it, and you move on.”
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