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Irvine: Psychological bubbles destroy emotional resilience by removing necessary daily challenges
“A psychological immune system is a similar thing. If you lived in a psychological bubble, that is in an environment in which you never had Challenges in which people never insulted you, in which it was just always smooth and easygoing when someone else took ca…”
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Irvine: Ancient Stoic propositional logic powers modern computing and cell phones
“They were in first century AD, they were the prime logicians of their time, and they were very good at propositional logic, which is what makes modern computers and your cell phone Work.”
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Irvine: Stoicism and Zen Buddhism share identical goals despite opposite methods
“First surprise was they are headed at approximately the same grand goal in living. And that is a life that's full of to the extent possible of positive emotions like delight and even joy and relatively without negative emotions like anger and anxiety. And regr…”
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Irvine: Preparing for worst-case loss cultivates profound gratitude and joy
“The Stoics can be regarded as emotional preppers. So what were they doing? They were preparing for things to become dramatically worse. They were preparing to lose the things they value in life. And that can sound like a really negative approach to things, exc…”
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Irvine: Ancient Stoics were cheerful individuals focused on preventing negative emotions
“The Stoics themselves were remarkably well-adjusted people. They were known to those who they lived with as cheerful individuals because they weren't anti-emotion. What they were out to do is minimize negative emotions, and they weren't out to stifle negative …”
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Irvine: Chronic dissatisfaction gave human ancestors an evolutionary survival advantage
“Those people who were not satisfied, who always wanted more, were much more likely to survive and reproduce, and therefore much more likely to be somewhere in your family tree. So to be dissatisfied was had survival advantage.”
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Irvine: Humans continually raise standards upon acquiring desires, chasing happiness like mirages
“Once we get something, we just raise our standard. We say, okay, okay, I've got all that. And that's nice, but you know, if I only had, and then you fill in the blank however you want, then at last I would live happily ever after. So we're like we're like thir…”
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Irvine: Stoicism is popular because its practical techniques are easily hacked
“I can give you the reason why stoicism is popular, and that is because it's very hackable. And I hate the word hackable, but it's hackable. It gives you specific psychological techniques that you can use to change the way you're living your life. There's a han…”
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Irvine: Negative visualization should be a brief flickering thought, not dwelling
“So it's a flickering thought that you have, and you can fill in some detail on that flickering thought. So imagine that you've lost your job. Then you allow yourself to kind of think about that for a sec, fill in some of the details, and then snap out of it an…”
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Irvine: People have exactly five seconds to reframe anger before ignition
“In my most recent book The Stoic Challenge, I describe what I call the 5:02 rule. So within my mind, I'll notice that something has happened and I'll notice the earliest signs of anger, just little smolderings of anger. And then my theory is I've got five seco…”
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Irvine: Praise from an 'anti-mentor' signals you are making a mistake
“I have this concept of an anti-mentor, and that is there are people who, if they praise you, it's a sign that you're doing something very wrong because they have such different values than you do that if they think you're doing the right thing, whoa, hold on, …”
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Irvine: Giving in to quitting empowers internal weakness against future resolve
“Giving into those voices encourages them hugely. You know, they live in the back closet of your mind and they're always trying. But you give them one big success, you know, where you actually do quit, and it's like giving them superpowers, you know, it's like …”
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Irvine: Teenage years are prime time to develop Stoic coping strategies
“Your teen years are just a prime time for you to develop stoicism, because that's when you really have to deal with your fellow human beings up close. You can't get away with them. You're stuck with them. You encounter them every day, and then you can have sto…”
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Irvine: The best response to an insult is no response at all
“A better way to respond to an insult is with no response at all. So somebody says their insulting remark, and you just carry on having whatever conversation you were having, and the interesting thing is, and you can watch this happen so I wrote a book on insul…”
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Irvine: Assuming the Other Side Lacks Intelligent Thinkers Proves Closed-Mindedness
“Well, in this particular debate, there are no intelligent, articulate people on the other side, which I should add is a sign of closed-mindedness on your part. So then you're precisely the person who needs to seek out those people, because almost invariably th…”
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Irvine: Ancient Greek philosophy schools operated as highly competitive startup businesses
“So if you wanted to start a school of philosophy, what did you have to do? You had to have a formula, and then you had to gain students. But there was an ongoing business of creating philosophy schools. And you kind of had to come up with a, you capture one co…”
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Irvine: Stoicism books for general audiences appear over once per day
“And at present, there are books on Stoicism Written for general audiences coming out at the rate of more than one per day.”
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Irvine: Roman Stoic Seneca was the 1st-century equivalent of a billionaire
“Seneca was counselor to an emperor, but he was also the greatest playwright of his time. He was also the first century AD equivalent of a billionaire, and he was a stoic.”
