May 21, 2020 · 31m · how-i-built-this
How I Built Resilience: Live with Tony Xu and Marcia Kilgore
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Guy Raz interviews DoorDash CEO Tony Xu and serial entrepreneur Marcia Kilgore to explore how operational agility, digital adaptation, and mental resilience help businesses thrive during severe economic disruption.
How this conversation actually went
Every chapter scored 0–10 on four independent dynamics. Hover any point for the reasoning behind the score. Guy holds 29.6% of the talking time here. How this is scored →
Guy as informed peer 4.3 Guest teaching 4.0 Guest disagreement 0.6 Guy pushing back 1.1
speaking balance: gold is Guy, purple is the guest (3 minute bins)
Sharpest disagreement ▶ 23:05 Marcia reframes bet-hedging concept
Marcia politely rejects the traditional macroeconomic interpretation of bet-hedging in a crisis, arguing instead that true hedging means learning every operational skill internally.
Hardest push from Guy ▶ 4:36 Guy confronts Tony on winner status and moral responsibilityGuy directly challenges Tony by labeling DoorDash an economic winner during a national catastrophe, demanding accountability on what responsibilities that entails.
Biggest teaching moment ▶ 26:49 Marcia breaks down beauty distribution economicsMarcia educates Guy on the rigid retail price-parity contracts that prevent legacy cosmetic brands from adopting pure disruptive direct-to-consumer pricing.
Guy holds their own ▶ 22:36 Guy cites Adam Grant's Originals to challenge risk managementGuy displays extensive recall and literary context by referencing Adam Grant's book and Marcia's past summit talk to probe her decision-making framework.
the scores for every segment, with the reasoning behind each
| Chapter | Topic | Guy as informed peer | Guest teaching | Guest disagreement | Guy pushing back | Why |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Restaurant Crisis and Delivery Surge | 5 | 4 | 1 | 2 | Guy opens with industry context, likening restaurants to the airline industry as early canaries in the coal mine. Tony elaborates by noting that while closures are tragic, many restaurants actually adapted quickly and maintained baseline cash flow via delivery. | |
| Adapting Menus and Off-Premise Dining | 5 | 4 | 2 | 4 | Guy presses Tony on the paradox of DoorDash being an economic winner while most businesses fail, asking directly about moral corporate responsibility. Tony calmly reframes the premise by detailing extensive safety nets, merchant marketing subsidies, and community meal initiatives. | |
| Tipping Culture and Frontline Positivity | 4 | 5 | 1 | 2 | Guy asks about non-tipping behavior and regional COVID case variance. Tony gently pivots non-tipping toward non-monetary expressions of appreciation, then educates Guy on how commuter demographics caused New York delivery trends to diverge from other states. | |
| DoorDash's Five-Year Vision and Mission | 3 | 2 | 0 | 0 | Guy asks a broad closing question about five-year alignment of values, followed by transition commentary introducing Marcia Kilgore. Tony outlines DoorDash's vision for empowering local merchant technology. | |
| FitFlop's Wholesale Disruption and E-Commerce Surge | 4 | 4 | 0 | 0 | Guy demonstrates knowledge of Marcia's brand ecosystem and the Harvey Nichols pop-up cancellation. Marcia shares details about wholesale cancellations vs a massive 4x surge in direct-to-consumer membership. | |
| Creative Leadership and Virtual Storytelling | 5 | 4 | 0 | 0 | Guy enriches the conversation by referencing Howard Schultz's philosophy on discomfort and recalling Marcia's early Bliss beginnings. Marcia expounds on how constraints and difficulties force creative muscle-building. | |
| Managing Inventory and Product Lifecycles | 6 | 5 | 1 | 2 | Guy demonstrates deep background knowledge by citing Adam Grant's book Originals and Marcia's past summit appearance on bet-hedging. Marcia reframes bet-hedging during a crisis away from financial hedging toward personal multi-skilling and doing foundational tasks yourself. | |
| Crowdsourcing Ideas Through Virtual Brainstorming | 4 | 3 | 0 | 0 | Guy asks an audience brainstorming question and contrasts Marcia's 1980s arrival in New York with contemporary digital networking. Marcia emphasizes that personal authenticity and empathy remain the core differentiator regardless of digital tools. | |
| The Future of Beauty Distribution and Retail | 4 | 6 | 1 | 1 | Guy asks whether the beauty industry will permanently abandon retail for direct-to-consumer. Marcia educates him on retail price equivalence rules, showing how traditional brands cannot easily undercut retail prices online like Beauty Pie's membership model does. | |
| Long-Term Takeaways: Active Listening and Presence | 3 | 3 | 0 | 0 | Guy asks his signature long-term reflection question. Marcia shares insights on active listening to understand rather than to respond, appreciating time saved from business travel. |
Statements from this episode (16)
Tony Xu: The COVID-19 Restaurant Halt Was Unprecedented in Three Decades
“In the three decades I've been observing the restaurant industry, I don't think I've ever seen something like this where business effectively just halted to a stop.”
Tony Xu: Michelin-Starred Restaurants Pivoted to Accessible Family Takeout Meals
“I see Michelin star restaurants changing their menus, which used to be exclusively for in-store, very high end kinds of experiences, and they're making now more approachable, accessible family meals that can, ah, really service both comfort and as a way for th…”
Tony Xu: DoorDash Invested Tens of Millions in Merchant Marketing
“And that's actually why we invest tens of millions of dollars in marketing for them so that they can get as close as they can to the sales that they once were seeing before this pandemic in the forms of marketing.”
Tony Xu: DoorDash Provided Free Delivery to Healthcare Workers
“Giving free deliveries to all healthcare workers nationwide, you know, to the largest hospital systems, hundreds of thousands of healthcare workers daily.”
Tony Xu: Restaurants Donated Meals to DoorDash Drivers During the Pandemic
“I see this also in the restaurant community where restaurant owners are not just trying to bring positivity in the form of say, donating meals to those who really need them. They're doing that also with the dashers”
Tony Xu: Consumers Resumed Restaurant Delivery Two Weeks After Lockdowns
“Right after the shelter in place announcements were made in, in, in a city, the first thing that would happen is, you know, consumers would actually go and stockpile on groceries. And I think this is where you may have read about some of the stories of stores …”
Tony Xu: NYC Delivery Volume Dropped Due to Reduced Commuter Population
“New York was a bit of an exception to that in the sense that New York has a lot of people who commute into the city, typically when all the businesses are open to work during the day, and then they may leave after hours as the workday closes. Because of the sh…”
Marcia Kilgore: Most Retailers Canceled FitFlop Forward Orders During COVID-19
“As soon as COVID hit, of course, and retailers shut down, most retailers, if not all of them, as well as a lot of our distributors, just canceled their forward orders.”
Marcia Kilgore: FitFlop Online Sales Doubled Following Retail Lockdowns
“And we've had probably a doubling of our online sales because those who couldn't go into retailers are just coming to our site, you know, to buy the shoes that they want and would have.”
Marcia Kilgore: Beauty Pie Saw 4x Daily New Member Signups During Lockdown
“In fact, we're seeing about four times the number of new members Joining every day now”
Marcia Kilgore: Review Zoom Presentations Immediately to Iterate Slide Decks
“I've done this a couple of times, actually, because I've presented decks to people over Zoom. Afterwards, I will actually stop, and I will write down what didn't go well, what could I have done better, or what could someone have done better, and then gone back…”
Marcia Kilgore: Developing a New Beauty Product Takes About 18 Months
“Well, so for beauty pie, we've had a product plan for a very long time, and it takes about 18 months to make a new beauty product.”
Marcia Kilgore: Unreleased Classic Inventory Remains Effectively New to Customers
“Sometimes if you've got a classic product, no one will know that it isn't new except for you. And it is new the first time that anybody sees it.”
Marcia Kilgore: Small Business Founders Must Learn to Do Outsourced Roles
“For smaller businesses, hedging your bets probably just means learning more parts of that business that you might have thought you could afford to outsource, maybe you can't right now, and that's all right. There'll be a time for it, and probably that will mea…”