New York Magazine called Sexton the sociopath you want on your side
James Sexton · Divorce Expert: The Early Signs of Infidelity | James Sexton · Nov 26, 2025 · at 1:09:16
Divorce lawyer James Sexton discusses his aggressive public reputation and cross-examination style with host Codie Sanchez.
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“Like I was described by New York Magazine as the sociopath you want on your side.”
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