Vivian Tu: Expecting a traditional homemaker requires being a sole financial provider
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Vivian Tu and Codie Sanchez discuss modern relationship expectations, dual incomes, and the division of domestic household responsibilities.
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“Well, I think the safe thing to say is that if you want a traditional wife, then you have to be a traditional man, and you want to talk about a wife who cooks and cleans and has a hot meal on the table ready for, yeah, because back in the day, we could also all survive off of your one income, And we could still go on vacation twice a year. We had a white picket fence home, a golden retriever named Rover, and our two kids could still go to college, and you could pay for all that. If you can go to work and do all that for us, I'm happy. Happy to vacuum the house every day. I'm happy to cook dinner. I'm happy. But if you can't, and all of a sudden, I also got to work all day and come home, I also need a wife.”
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