Brooks: Polyamory is nonsense because humans are built for pair-bonding
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Behavioral scientist Dr. Arthur Brooks discusses relational psychology and evolutionary biology with Codie Sanchez.
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“All of the nonsense about, I don't know, polyamory that are coming around. That's all Nonsense. And again, I mean, look, no judgment, different strokes, but look, I'm a behavioral scientist, and the truth of the matter is that we are built for pair-bond mating”
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