Fowler: Cost-benefit framing makes leaders more open to self-assessment
Dr. Carla Fowler · She Coaches 60 Leaders at Once and Sees the Same Trap Every Time · Sep 30, 2025 · at 22:41
Dr. Carla Fowler, managing director of Thaxa Executive Coaching, discusses how to help leaders who act as bottlenecks without resorting to judgmental diagnostic labels.
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“When we can start to just really talk about it much more in terms of like costs and benefits as opposed to right and wrong. And I think when we can move that conversation, it just really frees people up to be more open to consider change and even to self assess.”
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