Ury: Only 11 percent of people experience love at first sight
Logan Ury · Hinge expert shares dating advice for ambitious nerds · May 21, 2025 · at 47:04
Logan Ury, dating coach and author, breaks down modern dating myths about initial chemistry and romantic connection.
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“Only 11% of people Experience love at first sight, and many people develop feelings over time”
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