Perel: 65% of startups fail due to co-founder relationship breakdowns
Esther Perel · Esther Perel: Build better relationships at work | Masters of Scale · May 22, 2025 · at 12:37
Psychotherapist Esther Perel explains to host Jeff Berman why founders need to vet interpersonal dynamics before launching businesses together.
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“And yet we know That's 65% of startups fail because of relationship breakdowns.”
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