Hudson: People Want Partners to Support Them How Their Own Type Supports Others
Russ Hudson · #91 Russ Hudson: The Pursuit of Presence · Sep 1, 2020 · at 1:36:38
Enneagram author Russ Hudson explains to Shane Parrish how partners can identify and provide the specific kind of relational support their significant other needs.
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“People, when they're having difficulties, are always hoping that someone will show up for them in the way they would for us when they're at their best.”
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