Burgis: Identifying thick desires provides a decision framework for choices
Luke Burgess · Luke Burgis: The Power of Mimetic Desire · May 31, 2022 · at 1:08:25
Luke Burgis, author of Wanting, discusses René Girard's theory of mimetic desire with host Shane Parrish and explains how to filter life decisions.
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“There are some things that I usually call thick desires in opposition to thin desires, which are the more sort of mimetic ones that can change on a dime. And I think cultivating those is important and finding out what those enduring Thicker desires are begins to act as a bit of a hermeneutic for what to say yes to what to say no to”
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