Dethmer: Valid agreements must specify who does what by when
Jim Dethmer · #60 Jim Dethmer: Leading Above the Line · Jun 18, 2019 · at 42:08
Jim Dethmer, executive coach and co-author of The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, explains the core operational components of effective agreements.
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“Every agreement needs to have a who is going to do what by when. And agreements that don't have a who and a what and a when are sloppy.”
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