Kelly: High Achievers Relying on Ego Defenses Usually Hit a Wall
Loch Kelly · #103 Loch Kelly: Effortless Mindfulness · Feb 9, 2021 · at 24:56
Meditation teacher Loch Kelly discusses why relying strictly on ego defenses and conceptual thinking leads to eventual burnout or relationship breakdown.
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“Many smart people who are good at life can, for a while, develop ego strengths and ego defenses, and kind of chug along and become successful, but usually they'll hit a wall at some point, whether it's in another area, like a relationship, or Become over, like, get the motor running too fast.”
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