Passive hope provides a psychological safety net that keeps people stuck
Todd Herman · Todd Herman: Unleashing Your Secret Identity · Nov 28, 2023 · at 16:15
Performance coach Todd Herman discusses with Shane Parrish how unexecuted hopes and dreams act as defensive comfort zones that deter daily execution.
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“It's actually a place of safety and security because the moment I take action on it, I no longer have that warm blanket of hope that someday maybe I'll be able to go and do it. And I think that many people Stay stuck where they are, not pursuing the things that they really want to do because of hope.”
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