Colonna: Generational trauma and immigrant backgrounds drive achievement through constant catastrophizing
Jerry Colonna · Jerry Colonna: The CEO Whisperer · Oct 17, 2023 · at 25:35
Executive coach Jerry Colonna examines the psychological roots of why high performers often struggle to accept praise and instead rely on negative motivation.
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“I notice this a lot with the descendants of immigrants, or the descendants of those who might have survived pogroms, or the descendants of those who might have experienced famine, there's a particular attachment To holding on to the possibility of negative outcome, catastrophizing to drive themselves further and further. Because in the psychological construct of the being, if you relax, then fill in the blank, something bad will happen.”
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