Stutman: Excessively Positive Feedback Makes Teams Alarmist to Any Criticism
Randall Stutman · #96 Randall Stutman: The Essence of Leadership · Nov 10, 2020 · at 36:38
Executive coach Randall Stutman discusses the relational dynamics of feedback in leadership and parenting.
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“Too much positive makes it so that people get alarmist when they hear negative. And too much negative means people defend themselves on a good basis.”
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