Nejatian: A culture of 'suicidal empathy' is killing top tech companies
Kaz Nejatian · Excellence Is the Capacity to Take Pain · Jul 21, 2026 · at 22:20
Kaz Nejatian argues against corporate cultures that prioritize emotional comfort over confronting unvarnished operational facts.
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“There is a level of suicidal empathy that people have developed that is just deadly. It is killing our best companies because people are assuming that everyone is thin-skinned, and they're assuming that people are offended by facts.”
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